The Bible says ,you might beat the hell out of a child but you can never beat the stupidity out of the child’s head .but the Bible also says spare the rod and spoil the child.
This two statement might look related but they are never the same in meaning wanna know why? Ok.the first statement means you shouldn’t beat the child especially with an aim of removing a certain thinking or behaviour or character out of the child’s head or life,this will just be making your child more scared of you than respectful.
As a parent, one should just just use conversation method to be able to understand why the child did a certain thing and why they thought it is wrong.
The second statement means ,a little caining to the child as a parent is not bad but where it is needed but also explain to the kid why you Caned him or her so that he or she will not repeat the mistake made or will remember that it is wrong because of this and that but if you came the child and don’t tell him or her why you did it,he or she will not get what he or she is supposed to correct so they will just make mistakes thinking it is the right thing and yet it is the mistake and the cycle will go on until they get used to the canes and don’t feel nothing no more while you as a parent think you did the best thing but the child is the problem.
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